August 2018 | Modern Mummy

Sunday, 19 August 2018

Blush Beauty, Richmond Bridge: A Review

Does anyone else make a 100 mile round trip to go to a beauty salon? No? Just me?

In the early noughties, when I was a young, carefree, single, twenty something, living and working in London, I discovered Blush Beauty on the East Twickenham side of Richmond Bridge. Fourteen years, two children, a wedding and a divorce, and a move fifty miles away later, and I still make my way back to Blush every two months. When I moved out to Haslemere six years ago I tried to find a local beautician but no one measured up to Adele and the girls at Blush - so I gave up looking and have been making a bi-monthly pilgrimage back to Richmond ever since.

What makes the salon and it's staff so special, I hear you ask? And that's a good question. For me it's their friendliness and professionalism, the premises and their location, and also the very reasonable price list. But most of all, it's the fact that the girls know exactly what they're doing and they do it brilliantly. Adele, the owner, is hands down the best waxer I have ever been to.  If you find 'the one' why keep looking for someone else?!

This visit, I wasn't there for a wax, or a manicure, which are my regular treatments. I was there for two that I'd not had done before - and I was very excited about them both.

First up was a set of Lash Perfect Eyelash Extensions. I'd wanted to try eyelash extensions for FOREVER but had always been worried about the upkeep and what they might look like as they started to fall out. The express set was recommended for my first time - a full set of semi-permanent extensions that last around two weeks. Lash Perfect extensions are really versatile and you can go as natural or as glamorous as you want.... As I had Camp Bestival fast approaching and I knew that minimal make up would be on the cards, I opted for length, with extra lashes in the outer eye.

I had quite a few questions about the treatment, which were all answered for me. I was assured that the lashes are perfectly safe (I'd been in a couple of days before for a patch test of the glue) and I could continue to wear my contact lenses no problem. There would be no extreme 'baldness', as each extension is individually glued to onto a single eyelash and you lose the extension when you naturally shed your own lash. I could get the lashes wet (although not within the first 24hrs after their application) and I could still wear eye make up (no need for mascara, of course) but would have remove it very carefully with cotton buds and a non-oil based make up remover if I did.

The process took around 45 minutes and the lashes lasted six days before the first one fell out. All in all it was 12 days before they started looking a little less full, and I started wearing mascara again. Although I'm not sure I could afford the time and the cash to get them on a regular basis (a full set costs around £60-£80 with 2-3 weekly infills costing around £20-30) I'd absolutely get another set as a one off next time I'm heading off on a break. It was pretty liberating not having to worry about putting eye make up on every day!

My second treatment at Blush was a St Tropez spray tan, which I've never had before. It took about 10 minutes to apply, 10 to dry and then lasted a good 10 days before it started to fade. I use the St Tropez gradual tan regularly at home with pretty good results but have always been too scared to use "proper" fake tan after an incident in my early thirties (entirely my own doing) that left me looking as if I'd been tangoed. The tan would not wash off for love or money; I ended up going into hibernation for an entire weekend and showering and scrubbing hourly!

The St Tropez spray tan was amazing - completely natural, scent free and a bargain with prices starting at just £20 per spray. I worked out that it probably takes two full tubes of my gradual tan to reach the same colour over the course of a week and they're £15 a pop, so the amount of time and money the spray tan saves is just brilliant and I can't wait to go back for another one before my next holiday!

Blush very kindly gave me a complimentary spray tan and eyelash extensions in exchange for this review. All words are honest and my own, and I continue to be a regular paying customer.

Friday, 10 August 2018

Camp Bestival 2018

Read all about our Camp Bestival 2018 adventures over on The Modern Edit here!

Thursday, 9 August 2018

Champneys Forest Mere: A Gym Membership with a Difference

For the last couple of months, self care has been a seriously hot topic across social media. We all know how important it is to look after ourselves, but how many of us actually do? I'm totally guilty of burning the candle at both ends. I wake early and go to bed late, cramming the hours inbetween full of looking after the kids (and the animals), school runs, work, food shopping, cleaning and tidying. Like most mums (not just single ones like me) I very rarely get any time to myself - and when I do, I'm torn between doing things that I need to do, doing things I feel I ought to do, doing things I want to do and doing absolutely nothing at all. Me time is right at the bottom of my list of priorities; although I'd love nothing more than lying on the sofa watching Netflix some days, there's always something that needs doing.

When I mention the things I feel I ought to do, I'm talking about what I like to call extra curricular housework (the big jobs that aren't done every day, like cleaning out cupboards and moving furniture to hoover) and looking after myself by getting my roots done or going to the gym.

I've always been a member of a gym, although since leaving London and moving to Haslemere I've downgraded and been a member of the local leisure centre instead. It's not glamorous or pretty, and I wouldn't ever dare use the pool or shower there after a workout, but it only cost £45 a month, and they have two classes every morning which I go to regularly. I'm a fan of classes over actual gym workouts, otherwise I find myself sat quite comfortably on an exercise bike peddling at about 3mph whilst watching This Morning rather than working up a sweat and getting those endorphins going.

Up until the end of the last school term I'd got myself into a bit of a routine going twice a week, on Tuesdays and Fridays. Darting in to do a double whammy of classes, and darting out to go home and get showered and crack on with my working day. Perfunctory, and definitely not an enjoyable experience. But exercising is a necessity right? It's not meant to be pleasant.

For some reason or another I started having flashbacks to my gym days, pre-kids. Where my membership was admittedly a lot more, but I actually looked forward to going to the gym. It was an experience. I'd spend hours there; working out, having a sauna, showering, and washing and blow drying my hair. As if that wasn't enough, I'd often even stay and meet friends for dinner afterwards. It  was sociable. It was fun! Of course I couldn't do that now, but I couldn't help but think that surely working out, and looking after yourself in the process, needn't be such a chore.

And that's when I started researching my options out here in the sticks. There weren't many. Just two in fact - one, a well known health centre chain, with excellent childcare facilities, and the other a luxury spa - no kids allowed. The former was a 10 mile car ride away, the latter just 3. The single monthly memberships were similar, but adding the kids to the family friendly one would have almost doubled it. What did I want to take the kids to the gym with me for anyway? If I was going to start a bit of a self-care routine, I decided I'd rather do it on my own.

A couple of days later I found myself signing up to Champneys, Forest Mere and I have to admit... I was excited! But lets be honest, when your gym is a beautiful manor house set in 160 acres of woodlands, with excellent gym and spa facilities and a killer class timetable, you're going to be aren't you. I had my tour, signed on the dotted line and wished I didn't have to wait until the next day to do my first class.

My first visit was bang slap in the middle of the heatwave. I didn't want to overexert myself so I signed up for a morning yoga class before making the most of the outdoor pool and jacuzzi, and spending the afternoon working / dozing off in a hanging chair in front of the lake. If that's not self care I don't know what is! I left five and a half hours  later to do the school run with an empty inbox and feeling a million dollars.

Over the course of the next couple of weeks I did much of the same. I took part in HIIT and spinning classes, hula hooping classes (yes really!), stretching and meditation classes (and more yoga) and my favourite class of them all - ballet fusion. I worked poolside, or in one of the many indoor spaces, and allowed myself a break between the two to unwind and catch some rays.

The outdoor facilities really are incredible at Forest Mere, but the indoor ones are too - and I'm very much looking forward to enjoying them once the weather cools down later in the year! There's a thermal poolside suite, flotation beds and relaxation rooms as well as the sauna and steam room to visit.

I'm already a big fan of the constantly evolving timetable of classes and talks (you can see what's lined up from now until October here). The timetable is open to all members and hotel guests and it has been so wonderful to be able to take part in so many different activities, both indoor and out, working on different areas of my body each time.

Of course Forest Mere is very local to me, which is why a monthly membership is more than worth it, but for those of you that are further afield it's most definitely worth a visit, whether that's just for a spa day or for an overnight stay. We're very lucky to be on the edge of the South Downs here, so the scenery is unrivalled and there are some amazing hikes to go on from the hotel itself. They also have these beautiful, brand new Shepherd's Huts in the grounds, overlooking the lake, which I think would make the cosiest Autumn getaway!

Now that the children are at home for the summer, I'm back to having minimal me time for a few weeks. Although I'm not able to visit the gym as often as I have been, I'm making sure I keep active and that I allow myself a bit of down time too. Once they're back to school in September I'll be in a position to increase the frequency of my workouts again - I'm even contemplating signing up to one of Champneys boot camps! - and I can't wait. You'd never have heard me saying that a couple of months ago!

DISCLOSURE: Champneys gave me one month's complimentary membership in exchange for this review. All thoughts are entirely honest and my own.
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